4.10.2009

Freaky Friday: Free Porn

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4.09.2009

Ask Cherry: It's All Just a Head Game


Dear Cherry,

I'm dating a new guy and we've been intimate a few times.  Things are good, but whenever I give him head he has trouble keeping it up.  Is it me?  How do I know I'm giving/doing a good "job"?

- Deepthroat Dunce

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Dear Dunce,

Most likely if he hasn't asked you to stop and if he's not looking at you like "seriously... WTF?!?!?"  then you're probably doing just fine.  Just because a man isn't sustaining an erection doesn't mean that it doesn't feel good.  First thing you have to do is relax.  If you're tense, he'll be tense.  His most precious belongings are millimeters from your incisors.  The last thing you want him thinking about is that you might tense up and clamp down (OUCH!!!)

If you're unsure of what your partner likes you can ask, or if you'd like to be more sly in your approach, find out who his favorite porn star is, download a flick, and take some notes.  Usually men pick their favorites by skill not looks.  If you're not into porn, lucky you, head is usually first, so you don't have to watch long.  It may look well... extra pornographic, but men are visual creatures.  All that spitting, gagging and slobbering is what some men are into; some are into all the extra moaning and ohhh!ing.  Maybe he just wants you to look like you love it.

Whatever you do, just make sure you're comfortable with what you're doing.  Fuck the homies... it ain't no fun if you ain't havin' none!  If sloppy BJs are not your thing, it's better to just not and do something you do like.  

- Cherry ;*

4.08.2009

Bedtime Stories: What a Girl Wants














What A Girl Wants

In another place and time you said to me, "I want that beautiful mouth of yours wrapped around me again." I smiled, agreed heartily, and nodded mostly to myself. I've never forgotten that moment, those words, and the way they made all of my nerve endings tingle with desire for you. It's all about want, isn't it? Want and timing, but that's another matter entirely.

Today I find myself wanting to be romanced. I want to be kissed and held, cuddled and stroked. One by one, I want to feel rather than see the buttons of my blouse coming undone under your careful ministrations. The gentle breeze from the ceiling fan is what I want to sense as you gently push the blouse from my shoulders. I want to feel your mouth lightly nip the hollow at the base of my bare neck. I want you to take your time with me, brush those amazing fingertips lightly across my already stiffening nipples and watch them respond, just for you. I want you to slowly unzip my plain and deceptively simple jeans and I want to watch your eyes light up and dance as the French onyx lace tap panties come into view. I want to feel you trace your fingers across the floral pattern I picked with you on my mind and feel the heat emanating from deep within me. And when your hands leave me for a moment, I want to hear the scraping of belt buckle across the hardwood floor and the jingle of change and keys as your slacks hit the floor.

The weight of you as you sinks down onto the bed next to me; yes that's what I want. To feel the warmth, the burning passion running through your soul as you lower those skillful lips to my upturned face and capture my mouth with you own. I want to hear that delightful groan as I lean over, tickle your chest with my curls and lower my head into your waiting lap. I want to feel your cock grow harder and harder in my mouth as I tease the head and the tip with my lips and tongue before sliding the entire length of your straining shaft deep inside me for the first time in a long time. I want to revel in the familiarity of the taste and feel that is uniquely yours. The sharp uptake in breath is the encouragement I want as your hands fall to play with my hair as I gently cup your balls and feel how swollen and full they are for me. Over and over my lips slide up and down, sucking, squeezing and pleasuring you. Eyes closed, head thrown back and arms guiding me, I want to watch a little as you gets closer to coming for me.

And then it dawns on me that this isn't how I want it to end. I want to hear that low voice growl at me, "enough. I need to be inside you." and have those strong arms pull me upright and onto you. I want to hear the almost desperation in your voice. I feel it too. I want to slide down onto my knees on top of you and inch by inch feel that hard cock as it slides home deep inside me. I want to lean forward and tease you again with my hair across your chest as you thrust in and out of me. I want to ride you. Hard. I want to feel your thumb as you find my clit and stroke little circles around the very tip. I want to lean back a little and feel the heat between us, feel your hands tugging on my nipples, caressing my breasts. Between the constant pressure on my clit and the deep thrusting into my pussy I won't be able to think straight for long. When I can't stand it any longer, I want to come for you, all over you, moaning and screaming, gripping and squeezing, gushing my hot cream down over your rock hard cock while you work me, as orgasm after orgasm wrack my body and transport me to that place I love to be. And as I come I want to feel you come too, hear that primal scream and greedily receive all that you have for me. And when it's over I want to collapse in a tangled heap of limbs and bodies, sheets and blankets, sanity and sweat, breathing hard, face numb and souls sated.

Yes baby... that's what I want!

4.07.2009

Dress-up: Cute Toes


It's Spring Time!

As the weather gets warmer, hemlines will go up and toes will come out.  That means it's time to up your foot game.  I'm sure I don't have to lecture on the importance of pedicures but I do want to take a moment to talk about polish...

Dressing up sexy isn't just about lace and frills... the devil is in the details.  Personally I'm not a huge nail polish fan.  I usually just keep my nails neat and trimmed, with a clear coat.  Feet on the other hand are a whole nother issue.  Bad feet and even a bad choice of polish color can be quite a turn off for men.  My suggestion for women is to keep it bright and bubblegummy.

I know fashion tells us that nudes, deep dark blue/blacks and metallics are in, but honestly... none of these are sexy on feet.  As trivial as it is, just ask a few men.  Most seem to have strong opinions on the subject.  My suggest for Spring is to choose something from the new Sephora Digital Diva collection  (retail price $9).  The colors are formulated by OPI so you get quality color and coverage for a fraction of the price or regular OPI lacquer.

sidenote: Do NOT buy the yellow.  I know I said pick one from the collection but really... you know that's NOT what I meant!

4.06.2009

Toybox: The Cone


Doesn't this look like fun?

The Cone is a innovative new toy with tons of potential.  This oddly shaped bauble retails for about $129, but it sounds like it may be worth it.  It's about the size of a cereal bowl and has 16 different vibration settings, including fantastical finale called "orgasm".  It comes with an illustrated instruction manual with suggested positions.

I think this is a great choice for women who aren't fans of penetrating toys.  The cone is mailable and stretches to fit whatever you put on it, so it will curve w/ your curves and fold into your folds.  I also like this because it's made of hypo-allergenic silicone so it's safe for those w/ latex allergies and it's easy to clean.

This is also a good toy for couples.  It's hands-free so you can cum without worrying about hand-kitty coordination and since it works independently your hands can roam and you can please more than one person at a time ;)