Dear Cherry,
I'm dating a new guy and we've been intimate a few times. Things are good, but whenever I give him head he has trouble keeping it up. Is it me? How do I know I'm giving/doing a good "job"?
- Deepthroat Dunce
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Dear Dunce,
Most likely if he hasn't asked you to stop and if he's not looking at you like "seriously... WTF?!?!?" then you're probably doing just fine. Just because a man isn't sustaining an erection doesn't mean that it doesn't feel good. First thing you have to do is relax. If you're tense, he'll be tense. His most precious belongings are millimeters from your incisors. The last thing you want him thinking about is that you might tense up and clamp down (OUCH!!!)
If you're unsure of what your partner likes you can ask, or if you'd like to be more sly in your approach, find out who his favorite porn star is, download a flick, and take some notes. Usually men pick their favorites by skill not looks. If you're not into porn, lucky you, head is usually first, so you don't have to watch long. It may look well... extra pornographic, but men are visual creatures. All that spitting, gagging and slobbering is what some men are into; some are into all the extra moaning and ohhh!ing. Maybe he just wants you to look like you love it.
Whatever you do, just make sure you're comfortable with what you're doing. Fuck the homies... it ain't no fun if you ain't havin' none! If sloppy BJs are not your thing, it's better to just not and do something you do like.
- Cherry ;*
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